Someone just asked me what advice I’d give my younger self. I think back to my first major consulting project. I was armed with spreadsheets and analysis, confident in my recommendations. But when it came to presenting to the stakeholders, it was a disaster. Conflicting opinions, unexpected resistance, PowerPoint was being weird, and a complete lack of buy-in. It was a harsh lesson in the importance of stakeholder management. I wish I had an experienced consultant to share with me what I’m about to share with you. Here’s the wisdom that could have saved me a lot of headaches.

Listen First, Then Speak. Understand them and their world.

Don’t rush in with solutions. Before you do anything, truly understand each stakeholder’s perspective, priorities, and concerns. Active listening is your most powerful tool. Ask open-ended questions, pay attention to nonverbal cues, and validate their feelings. You’ll gain invaluable insights and build trust by demonstrating that you genuinely care about their viewpoint. Remember, they are the experts on their domain.

Map Your Stakeholders. Know who holds the power.

Not all stakeholders are created equal. Identify who has the most influence and who is most affected by your work. Create a stakeholder map, categorizing them based on their power and interest. This will help you prioritize your communication and engagement efforts. Focus on building strong relationships with key decision-makers and influencers. Understanding the power dynamics is vital to successfully navigate any project.

Communicate proactively and transparently. No surprises!

Keep stakeholders informed throughout the project. Regular, clear, and concise communication is essential. Be transparent about progress, challenges, and potential roadblocks. Avoid jargon and tailor your message to each stakeholder’s level of understanding. Nobody likes surprises, especially when it comes to project outcomes. Communicating early and often communication will prevent so many future headaches.

Manage Expectations. Under-promise, over-deliver. Every single time.

Don’t overcommit. Be realistic about what you can achieve and set clear expectations from the outset. It’s always better to under-promise and over-deliver than the reverse. When you deliver on, or exceed expectations, you build credibility and trust. Be honest about limitations and don’t be afraid to say ‘I don’t know, but I’ll find out’.

Build Relationships, Not Just Transactions. Consulting is a people game.

Consulting isn’t just about delivering reports and recommendations. It’s about building lasting relationships. Take the time to get to know your stakeholders on a personal level. Show empathy, build rapport, and demonstrate that you’re invested in their success. Remember that behind every title, there is a person. Building those connections will make your job more rewarding and will lead to better project outcomes.

Stakeholder management is a continuous learning process. There will be successes and setbacks. The key is to remain adaptable, empathetic, and committed to building genuine connections. By prioritizing active listening, clear communication, and relationship-building, you’ll not only enhance your project outcomes but also elevate your consulting career. Embrace the challenge, and you’ll discover that mastering the ‘people game’ is one of the most rewarding aspects of consulting.